I know what you are saying, and thank you. But the actual words you used is how JOan see it aswell, I dont. Willow doesnt belong to either of us, its our responsibility and honor to be in her life. Joan see a little person you can make into what ever she wants, I would like Willow to make all her own choices with unselfish guide from her parents.
I got some photos to update in here today, yeyyyy. Just need to format them first.
Jason you drivel as much as you like, its kinda relavant what you talk about so carry on. besides you are free to post where every you like anyway, if I wasnt happy about something i would soon tell you. I could do with all the information I can get on this subject, the more i know, the better well equiuped i will be to get as much access as i can.
Last time i was upthere I realised that Joan isnt seeing any English people, so therefore Willow is only learning Tagalog as a language. Of course Willow needs to know both sides of her cultutre, and I expect her to be multi linguel. but she just simply isnt getting a braod enough spctrum of people. Infact she still seems very wary of men.
I agree with Tom, though, get some video! You might tire of them right now ... but there is nothing like *hearing* that giggle to simply melt your heart. Happens regularly with me and my kids are 13 and nearly 16.
I'm lucky so far, the kids are still willing to hug me (us) and say they love me (us), even when their friends are withing earshot. :) I'm dreading the day when they're "too cool" to do that. :|
I bought a video cam as suggested, But looks like im not going to get the chance to use it. I am being refused all access, and have been told if i want to see my baby I have to fight it out in court. (she has probably started walking and talking by now, but i wouldn't know :-()
>I bought a video cam as suggested, But looks like im not going to get the chance to use it. I am being refused all access, and have been told if i want to see my baby I have to fight it out in court. (she has probably started walking and talking by now, but i wouldn't know )
that is not right.
concentrate, mat. put blinders on like a horse and
see fight it through court to get to be with your daughter and like oz said maybe get a mediator
EDIT: btw, many attorneys will see you for a consultation for 10-15 minutes free when you're shopping for an attorney to represent you, so, what you can do is see several in two weeks and take their advice and use it in court
I dont know when or how. but I hope to have something to add here. Willows 1st birthday september the 19th. seems im not aloud to go, still havnt seen her since the last photos, also havnt even heard form the mother. but im preying someone will send me photos of the birthday....
>And as far as I've seen they don't care if Dad likes to smoke a bit of pot.
That's true here in the US too. That was one of the things my lawyer asked me about at our first meeting. Might be the same thing for you too!
You can get visitations at the very least, M. As a father, you have every right to see your daughter! Chances are she's going to keep walking all over you as long as you allow her to do that. Fight back! That's your flesh and blood!
thanx, now i remember why i stopped posting in here.
I didnt post for your oh so f***ing wise judgment. I was stopping the record I have of my daughter dropping off the edge of the world. As usual, just go f***k yourself please Jason. I realy dont care how good your intentions where.
OK, you go ahead and keep telling yourself that you're
not her *****. Keep sitting there with your arms crossed doing nothing but complaining about how ****** life is treating you and see how well that turns out.
I did that for more than a year and got nothing out of it. Well, not nothing. Got pain and misery a plenty.
>go f***k yourself please Jason. I realy dont care how good your intentions where.
Tried to help you snap out of it and that's what I get. You're welcome. Any time, bud.