>I just hope she can make Joan see how wrong what it is she is doing.
Not to discourage you or anything but my ex's mom tried all she could to tell my ex how wrong she was, but she. would. not. listen!
If she did run off to another country, she's going to regret it when your child is old enough to know better and finds out the truth. She's likely to resent mom for what she did to you guys. That's just selfish and wrong on so many levels!!
For a little while, my ex brainwashed our kid to the point that he turned against me. I kinda let things go and didn't say much directly to him about it. Eventually her evil plans backfired on her. THAT'S when I really showed him what she was all about. A lying narcissistic user and a vindictive *****! Well, not in those words but...
Man, I went through so much hurt I couldn't sleep at night sometimes. Thought I'd never see the light of day. I was just a huge mess. Anyway, you probably don't believe in God or anything like that, (I don't remember) but I'll be praying for ya anyway, man! Can't hurt.
>there is nothing wrong with teaching people how to use torrents, its up to the user to be responsible about what they upload and download.
I don't remember the exact words I said in my
tutorial, but I do remember that at some point I was joking around with Phos about downloading CS4 or something like that. I said something about using Peerguardian and stuff like that as an added layer of security... that was about the time when r_ went to the FCA to post a link with some crap like 'how to steal photoshop'.
>why dont you report him for hacking, thats a much more serious issue?
Meh! Waste of time.
Anyway, back to Willow. You will see her again. You have rights as a father. You just have to find some way to fight for your rights. She can't just take your daughter away from you forever because she's bitter about some sh!t that happened between you two. That's dumb!
GAD! I'm not even going through what you're going through anymore, but I'm
still very irritated just knowing that you are going through that! >:(
>Not to discourage you or anything but my ex's mom
Philippino family lore is a little different than most, thats why I have gone down this route.
>If she did run off to another country, she's going to regret it when your child is old enough to know better and finds out the truth.
Joan is a habitual liar, she even believes her own lies im sure. She will lie to willow, but if I ever get contact I will not ever bad mouth Joan or talk about the **** she put me through or some of my friends in this forum, I want my relationship with Willow to be about Willow and I and nothing else. If Joan has or does go back to the Philippines im afraid Willow will be lost to me forever. :-(
Ok, ok... no more messing with the forum formatting, posting hidden messages, and general crafty stuff please. It's kind of time consuming to check even if you are posting nothing other than hidden kind words about your genial host.
>Ok, ok... no more messing with the forum formatting, posting hidden messages, and general crafty stuff please. It's kind of time consuming to check even if you are posting nothing other than hidden kind words about your genial host.
nope nothing yet :-( Its very hard to find out, none of her friends or family will tell me anything. I could just go upto London and knock on her door, if she is is still at the same address, but I think that would just be to confrontational. Im going to ask CAB to mediate a letter for me, but I doubt she will reply.
I'm sorry to hear that Mat. I have friends here who just came from the Philippines ... what are the chances they might know someone back home who might know her? What part of the Philippines did she come from?
>what are the chances they might know someone back home who might know her?
Its not just the population, there are over 7000 islands. But just in case, her family are well known in the area (they funded the building of the local school) Its the North island the City Davao, family name is Sambas.