unfortunately no, i do not know ASP well enough to give any code advice, other than the basic concept: make a request on a server-side script (such as ASP) via URLLoader - the script receives variable values (if required), runs the DB queries you wish to invoke, and 'returns' the results - pick them up in the URLVariables class via the event handler in Flash and assign them to local properties if needed, etc.
there are quite a few threads that you could find more specific information on the ASP side, here and elsewhere around the net.
