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Noel Carboni 23,478 posts
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[locked] Professionalism on the Photoshop Windows Forum

Aug 22, 2010 12:29 AM

I urge everyone to try to keep the following in mind when posting:

 

1.  Folks visit here because it's known as a good place to get help.

2.  Some people may ask for more than their fair share of help.

3.  Not everyone knows the same things nor has the same needs.

4.  Some people may be more expert than others at some things.

5.  We can ALL stand to learn from each other.

 

Frankly the level of personal confrontation is and has been FAR too high on this board, and it shouldn't be tolerated.  It often even pulls others who wouldn't otherwise be negative into the wrong mode.

 

I ask that everyone please consider respecting everyone else's opinion and right to be here.  Please think twice before sending a barb someone's way.

 

Let's talk about concepts, not people, shall we?  There's room for everyone here.

 

Have a wonderful day, and most of all, have fun with Photoshop!

 

-Noel

 
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    Aug 18, 2010 10:28 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    But it's more fun if it isn't all sweetness and love. 


    I enjoy a good argument!  


    Yes even in here, just like it was in the good old days before jive.

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 10:31 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    There is already a perfectly good set of rules for conduct on the forum!


    http://forums.adobe.com/thread/414764A

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 10:34 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    Noel,

     

    This is a somewhat similar thread, that has just been started in the Video Lounge. Obviously, that is not PS-specific, and is geared more towards the PrPro fora. However, some of the same feelings appear.

     

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    Aug 18, 2010 10:37 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    Aside from a few comments here and there. I generally see one particular user that has to turn every post into a confrontation. Personally I don't see why this one user has remained while many others were banned for posting less offensive/harsh than he/she has.

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 10:47 AM   in reply to Userbak610

    Hey!

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 12:46 PM   in reply to Userbak610

    >see one particular user

     

    Every message thread has a "Report Abuse" link... if you feel someone is being abusive... click the link

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 1:02 PM   in reply to John T Smith

    Unfortunately, that sends an email to the offending user, letting them know they're getting under someone's skin, which is exactly the opposite of how it should be (it has been a while since I was reported for abuse, so maybe this has changed). It's great for reporting spam, though.

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 2:15 PM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    All "arguments" can be done in a civil and respectful manner.  I've been on forums where the "community" has decayed into an unmoderated mass of sarcasm, snide comments, destructive criticism and hatred.  Personally, I have no desire to be a part of that type of community.

     

    We can all have different opinions, but as long as we respect each other for their time, knowledge and experience, everything should stay on the up and up.

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 4:15 PM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    When someone posts on here and they steal the software: it is on. The buttheads deserve to be attacked.

     

    This forum has really toned down since the new board software came into town. A lot of real pro's, people who eat and breathe Photoshop, left in droves never to be seen again. Other then Lawrence beating me up once in a while for my spelling errors () this place is really calm now. Not like the good ole days that John already pointed out.

     

    For the most part some people have locked horns and moved on to the next subject. Nobody lost a eye and there were no animals injured.

     
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    Aug 18, 2010 10:11 PM   in reply to Gyno-jiz
    Unfortunately, that sends an email to the offending user, letting them know they're getting under someone's skin, which is exactly the opposite of how it should be...

    J,

     

    Not quite sure that I agree with you here. If a person is being abusive, or is accused of being so, maybe a bit of a "nudge" will get their attention? It would with me.

     

    Over the decades, I have observed many great contributors, who, for whatever reason, has limited "people skills." They did solve issues quickly, and did provide tips on how to do a particular operation, but did so in an abrasive way. Hey, that is why T/S and C/S are never invited to the Official Adobe Picnic at the same time - different jobs, requiring different skills.

     

    Some people know the subject better than almost everyone else, while some great teachers, might not be blessed with that infinite knowledge. Who is the better? Only the poster can make that distinction.

     

    Now, if one knows the product intimately, maybe all they need is a bit of a critique on presenting that knowledge in a most useful manner. One would never want to loose an expert, or at least they should not. OTOH, maybe the forum would be best served, if they made a few modifications in their delivery.

     

    If I became aware that I was doing something wrong in my replies to posters, I would want to know. I would then work to make necessary changes, what ever they might be. Along those very lines, I have been contacted on a food/wine board, by some MOD's, with issues. Most are "bogus," in my eyes, but a very few have made an impression, and I have altered a few habits. I have learned a few things. Though I might not agree with every complaint, I appreciate the critique. Even when I feel 100% confident that I followed every guideline, I review all posts to that thread. Maybe I was too deeply into my evening wine tastings?

     

    Though I might disagree with you on this particular subject, I still respect your contributions and toast your knowledge and the help that you have supplied to so many PS users. That is what it should be about.

     

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    Aug 18, 2010 10:22 PM   in reply to Aegis Kleais

    I do agree, regarding the civility, but have to admit that I have not seen, what you seem to be alluding to. Now, I do not hang out here, as much as I once did. I just do not see what it appears that you are talking about, but might just have missed it.

     

    Most of the replies that I see are trying to address the OP's question, or problem. There are few riffs, by my observations. Do you have any specific instances? Like I said, maybe I am missing something.

     

    Good luck,

     

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    Aug 18, 2010 10:27 PM   in reply to dec9

    Now, you do bring up a real issue. I have not seen as much of this behavior, as I have in the past, when dozens of warez-kiddies would show up and demand that the forum regulars help them get their pirated versions up and running. Over time, I think that I have seen most of the possible excuses for justification and rationalization - "I'm a poor artist, poor student, father of 43, avowed anti-capitalist communist, paying for my dad' habit... " In the end, the answer is the same, "we all paid for our version of PS (or fill in the blank), and support Adobe."

     

    Hope that we see fewer of these, as the years go by.

     

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    Aug 18, 2010 11:18 PM   in reply to Bill Hunt

    Hope that we see fewer of these, as the years go by.

     

    But the overzealous kids with no skill or talent make all up for it....

     

    Mylenium

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 12:16 AM   in reply to dec9
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    dec9 wrote:


    ...

     

    This forum has really toned down since the new board software came into town. A lot of real pro's, people who eat and breathe Photoshop, left in droves never to be seen again.


    When I joined these forums the new board software was already in place.  I actually find these forums pretty usable. What was so much better about the old software? Was it more customer-friendly, or was it just a matter of not being able to migrate threads and profiles that made people leave?

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 12:26 AM   in reply to acresofgreen

    The old forum was snappier. It used simple list views and no fancies at all, which worked reasonably well within the whole Adobe site, which, as we all know, is generally a tad on the slow side. The current forum is much laggier due to al lthat JavaScript stuff bringing more overhead. As to why people leave or get removed is open to speculation and certainly not something relevant for a public user-to-user forum. There are other places for that.

     

    Mylenium

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 2:24 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    If people can't handle being contradicted and just want pats on the back, this is not the place to be.

     

    You should have seen the old Mac forum before Ramón and Buko got kicked out (unjustly). The place was on fire sometimes, but boy was it a great place to learn.

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 2:40 AM   in reply to D Fosse-QDEaQ1

    D Fosse wrote:

    You should have seen the old Mac forum before Ramón and Buko got kicked out (unjustly). The place was on fire sometimes, but boy was it a great place to learn.

     

    It's interesting that they are still top participants more than a year after the purge.

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 3:43 AM   in reply to D Fosse-QDEaQ1

    If people can't handle being contradicted and just want pats on the back, this is not the place to be.


    Quoted for agreement. People will simply have to decide what's more important to them - getting help or being lovebombed and continuing on the wrong path.

     

    Mylenium

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 5:52 AM   in reply to Mylenium

    Now I feel terrible!

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 6:55 AM   in reply to Bart Cross

    And why's that? As Audioslave sing "To be yourself is al lthat you can do...." So be yourself, don't compromise just because some otehr people tell you to. Life's to short for wasting time trying to "fit in".

     

    Mylenium

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:03 AM   in reply to Mylenium

    My photo is beside 'Misfit' in the dictionary. (forgot the winkie last time).

     

    Trust me, <AC/DC>I got big .....</AC/DC>

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:48 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    Noel Carboni wrote:

     

    I have to agree wholeheartedly with one point noted above:  I'm not at all tolerant of people wanting help stealing software.  Being stern but respectful in that case may influence some idiot into doing the right thing - or not (he must be an idiot for announcing publicly that he's stealing).  I like to point out to them that people feed their families on the proceeds made from selling software, and how would they like it if we just went and stole their stuff.  One day they'll grow up.

     

    -Noel

     

    You are much more of an optimist than I, sir.

     

    But, good thoughts, nonetheless.

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:51 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni

    Noel, your analogy assumes that the chocolate cookie of an oreo is in some way, superior to the creme, and therefore inappropriately depicted as the positive.

     

    I submit to you the fact that Nabisco doesn't make "Double Cookie Oreos" but instead, "Double STUFF (creme) Oreos".  We all know which part of the Oreo is most delicious.

     

    I rest my case.

     

    ....now where can I find some Oreos?

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 7:51 AM   in reply to OldBob1957

    What I found a little bit vial about pirate software was that quite people were being accused before there was any proof. My concept was that eventually these individuals do say something that indicates they have pirate software and my view is too make my opposition clear at that point and refuse help. I would just prefer that people weren't putting the cart before the horse in this case.

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 9:52 AM   in reply to Bart Cross

    Some people come here to be directors and not participants. Being a participant means a certain equality at a basic human level while director means I trump you because i have more___(fill in the blank). I appreciate those who truly participate because this is a group of interested and informed although on different levels and in different degrees. When the heavyweights tread lightly and with respect for the dignity of the posters, I am relieved. Their egos are not tied up in being BMOC.

     

    I'm reminded here of a story about Albert Einstein. He was invited to address a gathering, IIRC and when he was introduced, he got up and said Thank you, I have nothing to say and sat down, to the shock and consternation of the audience. Sensing this discomfort, he rose again and said  When I have something to say, Ill be glad to come back and say it. (no quote as I am running on memory here!).

     

    That has stayed with me ever since.

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 10:20 AM   in reply to Hudechrome

    Good ol' Bert.


     
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    Aug 19, 2010 11:32 AM   in reply to Mylenium
    But the overzealous kids with no skill or talent make all up for it....

     

    Yes, so true!

     

    Hunt

     
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    Aug 19, 2010 11:35 AM   in reply to Mylenium
    The old forum was snappier.

    I also felt that Search was much more useful, and greatly appreciated the "flags," and the "New" banners on replies, since I was last there.

     

    However, for all my complaining, I have just gotten over it - mostly.

     

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    Aug 19, 2010 11:40 AM   in reply to Bart Cross

    Bart,

     

    I always feel that asking a question - "is this the full-paid version, or did you buy from ____?" usually points things up quickly.

     

    Usually, the poor poster was actually a victim of attempting to get a good price, and are surprised that they have pirated software. A very few are not surprised (guess that the key-gen gave it away?), and then go on to try and defend their use of such software. Never have heard a worthy excuse, but I'm so danged old-school, that it takes a lot of convincing.

     

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    Aug 19, 2010 11:42 AM   in reply to Hudechrome

    Your observations have a lot of merit. Going back to before the days of the Internet, when everything similar was in News Groups, there was a cute (but true) list of "the usual suspects," with descriptions of how they participated and were likely to react. I cannot find my link to that list of "characters," but if I do, will attach it. It would not have taken one long, before they found most of the players. Heck, I found myself in that list, very quickly.

     

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    Aug 19, 2010 12:03 PM   in reply to Bill Hunt

    Well the point I was making was they would make the accusation before the question. It really got out of hand.

     
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    Aug 20, 2010 8:47 AM   in reply to dec9

    "A lot of real pro's, people who eat and breathe Photoshop, left in droves never to be seen again."

     

    Where did they go? I heard Facebook, but no thanks to that. I miss those folks, even the occasional pissing contests. Not that 'yous guys aren't interesting or anything like that. It's just hard not to feel that the pool of knowledge around here has gotten diluted. Or is that deluded?

    My spelling sucks too...

     
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    Aug 20, 2010 9:07 AM   in reply to TLL...

    TLL... wrote:

    Where did they go?

    Retirement. They can still be found via their business web sites.

     
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    Aug 20, 2010 9:11 AM   in reply to TLL...

    Yeah, Facebook. I signed on but after seeing what happened to their privacy attitude, I don't interact there, and am glad I have minimal personal info to be mined.

     
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    Aug 20, 2010 9:26 AM   in reply to Marian Driscoll

    Retirement? You mean people in the imaging biz can actually RETIRE?

    Wow, I guess there is still hope for this economy ...

     
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    Aug 20, 2010 10:22 AM   in reply to Noel Carboni
    • Some of them vowed not to purchase more Adobe software because of grudges or disinterest in useless bells and whistles found in newer releases. Some never upgraded to Intel Macs and have fallen out of relevance with modern software.

     

    • Some of those that left were themselves intolerant of others' viewpoints.

     

    • Some of those that left were more photographers than photo editors. You might see them on photography forums now. One major issue they had was a change in the forum policy that granted Adobe rights to any image that they would post here.

     

    • And most importantly, and relevant to this topic, some were kicked for unprofessional behavior.
     
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    Aug 20, 2010 10:32 AM   in reply to Marian Driscoll

    Forget the handful that were banned – it is the true industry pros, with expertise from all stages of production that are missed here.


    It is interesting that they all disappeared at the time of the switch to jive or at the latest when it became obvious that hardly any of the comments on the new software would or could be acted upon.


     
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