The video player skins in Dreamweaver are for FLV files.  The choices are limited & you don't have much control over them because DW is web authoring software. It's not player software.

If you want custom controls, try a different player.

Pickle Player

http://www.pickleplayer.com/

JW Player

http://www.longtailvideo.com/players/

FlowPlayer

http://flowplayer.org/

Nancy O.

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Look at the documentation.  Of the 3 listed, Pickle is by far the simplest to deploy.

http://www.pickleplayer.com/docs/install_setup.php

And you can customize the player controls (skin) with their optional Skin Designer Tool

http://www.pickleplayer.com/docs/skin.sd.overview.php

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Pickle uses multiple web technologies (HTML5 & JavaScript)  to work in all devices including iOS, PC, Mac, Android, with Flash fallback for Mozilla browsers.

Did you upload the PICKLE folder and all it's contents to your remote site?  Did you upload your video to your remote site?

See Supported Video Formats

http://www.pickleplayer.com/docs/file_formats_overview.php

Do you have the correct folder & file names listed in your player code?

<div data-media="folder/video-filename.m4v" data-image="folder/video-filename.jpg"></div>

NOTE:  cAsE matters. Also, don't use spaces in folder & file names

Post a link to your test page.

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Your code didn't come through correctly.

The best way to get help is to upload your page to your web server space and post a link in the forum so we can see it.

Nancy O.

PROBLEM #1 Absolute positioning is not recommended for primary layouts. You don't need positioning at all particularly since you're using a pre-built CSS Layout. 

PROBLEM #2 Your video file is 404 not found on server.  This is the path that is referenced in your Pickle Player code:

http://www.exposedinblackandwhite.com/Video_files/9-11/XBW/Video_files/9-11/WTC_9_11_720_QS.mov

It probably should be this (I can't confirm right now because I'm uploading a ton of media files): 

http://www.exposedinblackandwhite.com/XBW/Video_files/9-11/WTC_9_11_720_QS.mov

PROBLEM #3 is the same as #2, image is 404 not found.  Remember, don't use spaces in file names.

http://www.exposedinblackandwhite.com/Video_files/9-11/XBW/Video_files/9-11/%209_11.jpg

Correct path should probably be this but image is not there:

http://www.exposedinblackandwhite.com/XBW/Video_files/9-11/%209_11.jpg

I would suggest that you focus on getting your Pickle Player to work on a plain vanilla test page without any other CSS, scripts, menus, rollovers, etc. 

Go to File > New > Blank page, HTML, [Layout] None. 

It will be easier for you to work with the code if you don't have all that other stuff to look at. Once you get the player working on your test page, you can copy the code into your site page.

Nancy O.