You are not a pest.
The problems seem to stem from the fact that you are not
understanding the output files on the server are not the same
internally as the source files in your backup of the project. Let's
say you have a topic called redrabbit.htm.
Import a copy from the server, you will have the red square
and lose the dropdown. If you import the same name file from the
source, you will not have the red square and the dropdown will be
there.
Before you get RH reinstalled, try opening another project,
such as one of the supplied samples. If that opens OK, there's no
point in reinstalling.
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