First of all, my sincere condolences for your loss. Losing your last high-end CRT is a traumatic loss. I'm still hanging on to two (2) of them! (Knock on wood!)
Highly recommended monitors:
The NEC 2690 and 2490.
You want to use the SpectraView II software to conduct all the work internally and use GammaComp and ColorComp.
If Andrew Rodney chimes in with updated recommendations, listen to his advice.
As for the last sentence in my previous post, I thought we were in the Color Management forum, where Andrew Rodney is often active.
You may want to post there too:
This Photography forum is a graveyard these days.
Wo Tai Lao Le