when I right click on a flash image and click settings, nothing pops up.
Can you try http://forums.adobe.com/thread/892474 ?
Once you get the Flash Player Settings fixed, can you try to disable Hardware Acceleration (http://forums.adobe.com/thread/891337) to see if this fixes your video problems?
I am using Windows 7 64 bit, IE 9, Adobe Flash player 11 ActiveX 64 bit, 184.108.40.206
That's a BETA version. Uninstall it and then install the current stable release which is 220.127.116.11: http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/
List the URL's where you are having problems.
so I installed the correct flash player as listed above, I have deleted the things listed in the other post, I can get setting to open on the adobe site but not on my urls
http://gisinfo.co.portage.wi.us/realestate/? doesn't work on my computer, but works on two other computers
http://www.west-inc.com/ecard2011/index.htm doesn't work either
not sure where to turn now. I have tried everything. would this have something to do with java or any other program holding adobe back?