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what I miss understand in your second question about getting the sub menu horizontal can be explained in two points
- the vertical Spry menu is exactly the same display (menu and sub menu) of the exemple you gave, so where is the error ?
- anyway... if you get second level sub menu horizontal (tricking CSS), how would you like the 3rd level (if any) displayed ?