The only way I could get it greyed out was to clear the check
box for the Content button on the second page of the wizard. That
also prevents the TOC displaying so it can't be that as your TOC
does display.
You say it is the check box for synchronising that is greyed.
If you deselect the check box, then the dropdown becomes disabled.
It isn't the dropdown that you see greyed rather than the check
box?
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