I checked the support page and it says the following:
Okay, under Window: no mini bridge. How do I get it?
I think I've figured out my problem.
I'm using cc, but my bridge was cs6
I've just downloaded the update in cc, but because everybody I know, everybody who can help me, uses cs6 and I've found a method to export my cc and import into cs6, I think I'm going to go back to cs6 for this gnarly project.
Nobody I know seems to be using cc and it's so expensive!