Check the flyout menu in teh actions palette. if you knew how to create them, you sure should know how to load and save them.... Anyway, this may be futile. Many actions don#t work in CS6 as reported by a variety of users. For more details ask in the PS forum...
Moving this discussion to the Photoshop General Discussion forum.
I went to the flyout menu and was able to see where they were being saved, but when I looked in that folder it's empty. So I know how to create them, but I don't know how to find the files or where to load them. I guess that wasn't clear from my question.