It's not at all clear hwat you're saying, ScreamRock. When do clips attract each other? What clips? Where?
If you can post a screen capture of your timeline demonstrating what's going on, that would help tremendously?
BTW, have you checked out my free 8 part Basic Training tutorials for the program? They may answer most of your questions.
After you read Steve's basic training link... here is more help (also, you should mention your version when posting)
Importing Video http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1065281
-and project settings http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1112086
Saving & Sharing http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1137128
-Sharing to DVD or BluRay http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1137645
-Sharing for Movies http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1051093
-Sharing for Computer http://forums.adobe.com/thread/1058237
I think he is asking how to activate the "snap" feature, Steve.
What version are you using?
You could be correct. If so, the S key should toggle that ON/OFF.