Dear adobe. The auto opt in for 3rd party tool bars is a bad practive. Please stop this. At a minumum it should be opt in only. The content flash updates is annoying as it is, to always have to opt out of 3rd party tools like the google tool bar is down right annoying. I would send an email complaint, but it is impossible to find a actual contact form on your web site. Does not look like adobe likes to hear from customers.
These are user-to-user forums, so your request, while shared by many, is not going to do much as a posting in these forums. I wish I could tell you where you could add your complaint to the many that precede you, but I know as much as you do as far as how to effectively communicate with anyone who might have the power to change this situation.