I have done this in Windows and Linux both for CF 9, but you can follow the same for ColdFusion 10. The place where we have to enter the IP address, put in the IP address of Remote server where you have installed ColdFusion 10.
In Web Server machine create the Identical directory as /opt/ColdFusion10/config/wsconfig and then place all the files,
Manual Connector for Apache: http://helpx.adobe.com/coldfusion/kb/coldfusion10-apache-manual-connector-configuration.ht ml
In ColdFusion server machine, you don't have to create this connector directory.
Please check this article, this is for CF 9.
Hope this helps.