Running InDesign CC (9.1) on OSX 10.9.
Colleague running InCopy CC (9.1) on Windows 7 SP1.
Files stored on a Windows server.
OSX accessing files via AFP and Windows accessing files via CIFS.
If I unlink the icml files and re-import them everything is fine. As soon as the windows user edits them though, InDesign crashes on link update.
We're having this problem too. I read somewhere that an 8.x update of InDesign was supposed to fix it, but we're using 9.2 - so not fixed.