Download the Adobe Flash Player installer directly by right clicking the following links and selecting "Save target as".
Save the files to your Downloads folder - DO NOT run anything yet.
Reboot your system.
BEFORE opening anything, go to the Downloads folder and run the UNINSTALLER to remove all instances of Flash Player.
Next, run the ActiveX installer.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP! It was the Active X that was the problem
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any advice for Safari - with same issues ?
Safari Windows or Mac?