If you use an app called "MenuTab" (a Facebook plugin) it will maintain a Safari connection to your Facebook page EVEN WHEN THE BROWSER IS QUIT.
Open your Activity monitor (Applications/ Utilities) and look for MenuTab. Terminate it and you shouldn't see the message anymore.
If that doesn't apply, download the offline installer here: Flash Player (Mac OS X)
Reboot and run it before launching anything
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