I've seen cross reference questions, but none dealing with ID CC, which, I believe is 64-bit.
We've greatly expanded our use of cross-references with this new more power version with overall good success. However, ID still seems to insist on updating every cross-reference with every keystroke. What a pain.
I work with all book documents open to minimize this, but since it's across a network, it can still be pretty painful. In addition, some documents are used in multiple books so I use layers to control which cross-references are active any any given time.
It's getting very trying. Does anyone have experience with using 3rd party xref management software with ID CC?