Why are you moving the entire project folder? For collaboration you should all be connected to some storage location that all can acess.
InDesing Server is an automation tool, not really what you think.
Yeah, I saw this response in the forums when others had asked a similar question. However, those inquiries where a few versions of INDD ago and I thought there might now be a solution. I'll assume there is not.
Not everyone can connect to the server when working remotely. CC doesn't allow you to share project files on their share and DrobBox-like solutions don't have nearly enough space for our projects.
If linked resources are stored on a central server, you can use something like dropbox to share the document file. How often is it actually a crisis if a link is not accessible? It's better to have a temporary inaccessibility issue in most cases than to constantly have to update.