The short answer is probably "no."
The longer answer is a plugin like AutoFlow Pro from In-Tools.com might help, but may not be available for your version of ID.
is there a way to move a page so that only the page numbers and footers move from left/right, but the rest of the overridden items do not appear on the pages and they just move exactly as they have been designed?
You could do it if you are willing to detach the pages from the masters. So if you select all of the pages you want to rearrange in the pages panel, choose Override All Master Page Items from the Pages flyout, then apply [None] to the pages via Apply Masters to Pages...
The obvious downside is now you wouldn't be able to do things like move the position of all the folios from the page's master, but if you think the page design is final you might be able to live with that.
I didn't really want to detach from the master since I wanted the footer and page numbers to appear on every page.I ended up deleting all of the elements from the master except the page and footers on the master page and assume that if I needed to add any pages, I could copy and paste. But it seems like there should be a way to switch the order of pages without all of the master elements popping back up.
thanks. I'll look into it.