somehow when I was editing/developing the space where you can edit exposure etc has disappeared and I have no idea how to find it and where to get it back so I can edit my photos
I think you mean the Basic panel section is gone, right? Right-click on one of the other section titles, like Tone Curve or Details and put a checkmark next to Basic:
where do I checkmark Basic?
got it thanks so much!!
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