Ok so i am trying to install the Adobe Flash Player. When i go to youtube it say it's out of date so i click to download it and it starts downloading when it get's to like 97% percent it says please close following programs and list safari and my safari is closed so what should i do? it does NOT download
From the top left of your screen, choose Safari > Quit Safari
To be sure you are getting the latest version of Flash Player, go to the source http://www.adobe.com. Select MENU in the upper right corner (next to SEARCH). Then select Adobe Flash Player, second from left, at bottom of the PRODUCTS menu.
Hopefully this resolves your problem.
This is a common question -- a lot of folks minimize Safari instead of fully exiting, which is pretty understandable. Reminding folks to explicitly exit using Quit Safari usually does the trick.
Here's a direct link to that download page: http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer