Hey, that is ok but you need to forum search quickly before you post - Often most things have been asked and answered before.
If you do not see menu items you see documented it is because you do not have a higher enough plan to support it, that or whoever built or made the site for you did not give you enough privileges to have access to everything.
AHOOOOOOYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY! Today is a great day, for I have found all of the answers to all of my problems! LOL
So I was the creater the site and did everything with the admin setup...bought BC subscriptions, etc. and the thing I needed to do was view "My Details" from my admin name in the upper right and click this little box that says "Enable online content editing (incompatible with Muse)".
Now I just need to figure out how to do things when my entire site is made in Muse and I know no HTML lol.