I have the newest version of Indesign CS installed. Most of my Object options which normally show in the Control Panel are gone. When I try to customize it none of the selections will show. Also my Rounded Corners menu selection is gone. I've tried reinstalling, deleting the preferences, make new workspaces -- nothing seems to work. I run the same system at work and all the menus show up fine.
Which version do you have? (There is no new or newest version, as new versions are CC2014.)