I recently went through calibrating my monitor with X-rite and Color Management software. All is good. what I don't understand and have no idea if this is even connected with any changes that I made such as don't use Windows for calibrating, is why when I view an image in Develop, make adjustments and then back to Library (one monitor) the image colors change dramatically. Please advise.
Did you ever find and answer to this?
Make sure you set your calibration software up to generate a icc v2 profile. It is likely a preference in the software somewhere. Lightroom does not deal well with v4 display profiles and can cause color shifts like the one shown here.