I lost the ability to change basic exposure/contrast/etc for a photo, how can I get that option/setting back?
You lost Basic in the right-hand panel ?
Riht click any other option ( ToneCurve, HSL etc) and check Basic in the list.
From the Lightroom menu when in the Develop module, Window->Panels and make sure there is a checkmark next to Basic.
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