Sounds like you are wanting to see the confirmation dialog when you close a file? If so, click the File tab and choose Options. Then click the General section on the left side of the dialog that appears. On the right side near the bottom is an option that governs this behavior. Enable this and click the OK button and you should be set.
We have that enabled. A user messed up the folder structure and we were wondering if there was a way out of the project without saving those messed up folders.
Ahhh, folders being moved around are an entirely different story. Those changes are immediate. About the only thing you could do would be to perform an undo. But assuming that were to work, it would pretty much need to happen almost immediately after the initial move occurred.