Generally I upload all of the photos from a shoot and move individual photos from photoshop from there, but photoshop won't recognize the NEF files for some odd reason. I'm only running Camera Raw 8.0.0 and its not showing any updates past that point. Please let me know how to proceed without having to use a DNG converter.
Sorry, I upload all of my photos too Lightroom and then move them to PS.
Can you please confirm what version of Lightroom & Photoshop you are using? Also, what camera model are you using?