Where is the actual 'Location' of the Flash Player on my Mac OS X 10.9.5. I need to go to the Settings Manager for some adjustments but can't find the Flash Player itself.
Flash Player is saved in the /Library/Internet Plug-ins directory on OS X. Although, I'm not sure why you would need to know it's location to make changes in the Settings Manager.
You should be able to go to System Preferences > Flash Player.
If you don't have a Flash Player entry in System Preferences, are you exclusively using Chrome? If so, the directions you're following are probably wrong. I'd like to see them.