Hmmm - you should be able to do this. if you added a draggable handle onto the +hands group within CH (like https://youtu.be/qnMGlJg6x5w), they should drag. You could try adding a draggable handle to other areas - like the body - and see if that works?
You'll want to put the rear hair inside the Fairy 3 folder - anything outside of that will be seen as a disconnected part, which is why it isn't moving. For example, you could make another group below the body called +RearHair. I'd also remove that black background.
If it still isn't working, feel free to DM me the file (like a Creative Cloud, Dropbox, or Google Drive link) to your PSD...
Just to close this out, Elizabeth sent me the file and the biggest issue seemed to be how the hands weren't connected to anything - putting a bar (offscreen) between them helped bring them together and get them going. I also put the hair in a second folder and added a second Face behavior to it to also control it with head tracking.
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