Have you tried trashing your InDesign preferences?
Close and relaunch InDesign, and IMMEDIATELY hold down Ctrl + Alt + Shift (Windows) or Cmd + Ctrl + Opt + Shift (Mac), and respond in the affirmative to the dialog asking if you really want to replace the preferences. you must be extremely fast on the keyboard (if you don’t see the confirmation prompt, you were too slow)
You may have to do it a couple of times before you get the hang of it!
You need to empty the recovery folder. It's located in the Caches folder at C:\Users\<your username>\AppData\Local\Adobe\InDesign\<version number>\<language>\caches, which is a HIDDEN folder so you need to set Explorer to show hidden files and folders.
Please email your InDesign file to firstname.lastname@example.org and I will take a look at the document.
If the file is larger than 10 Mb, you can zip (and password protect) the file and upload to Creative Cloud account (or Dropbox) and send us the document link.