You may want to go here: Photoshop Family Customer Community where Adobe's programmers and customer feedback is.
We're just regular users helping out with technical and technique questions, we are not Adobe Staff, although they do help out.
It can certainly be frustrating when long accustomed workflows suddenly change, but in my experience, every time this happens I always agree that the new feature is an improvement once I learn it. Every time an Adobe product is upgraded, if you click on Help, and choose Online Help you'll find a What's New link
Julianne Kost usually puts up several videos that explain new features in a friendly way
Search Julianne's blog for specifics like the Crop Tool. She is an excellent trainer and makes it easy to follow.
And Jeff Tranberry lists issues with new versions in his Crawlspace blog
Good luck, and PLEASE come and ask us if and when you get stuck. We actually enjoy doing this stuff.
I Appreciate the Kindness - I will bear this in mind next time I become frustrated - I need to stop and learn what is new before I expect to work as usual. ANNND probably NOT post when I feel like pulling my hair out. This did help me. thank you