For dozens, perhaps hundreds of times, Adobe has updated Flash player. EVERY time it asks to "chose your update option". Every time I select "Notify me to install updates" but the next time it again defaults to "Allow Adobe to install updates". Ignoring what is chosen each time does not constitute a choice of options.
Clearly, choosing "notify me" isn't Adobe's preference. But it may be the user's choice. Could Adobe just leave it as chosen instead of changing it each time?