The page number of my book and the page number of adobe reader don't match. Its beacuse every book starts its page from 1 after its intro,author,publishing name,etc...it would help me a lot if there a option by which i can tell adobe reader that this is page 1.
As you have mentioned, I assume that the application is also numbering intro,author,publishing of your book and because of that its page number varied from the actual one?
Its a designed behavior of application, it doesn't go with the actual page number. It go with the count of the actual pages.
There isn't any specific setting/option that can be changed to let application know about page numbers.