I have a sample of a video player here: http://www.smithmediafusion.com/blog/?p=337
This sample reads from a xml file. You could use coldFusion in a similar manner as I do with this xml file. If the coldFusion script is connecting to a database then have it loop thru the records and output the data in a xml tree format.
That looks like something I want but can I use that with a Flash Streaming server? build the XML from coldfusion?
You don't need a streaming server.
The xml file would just be your cf output in an xml tree.