as2 or as3?
in as2, use two different instances of loadvars. one to send variables/values and the other to receive:
var sendLV:LoadVars=new LoadVars();
var receiveLV:LoadVars=new LoadVars();
// do whatever
sendLV.sendAndReceive("yourasp.asp",receiveLV,"POST"); // assuming your asp si expecting posted variables.
I hate to say this, but is there any way you could dumb that down for me? I know I need to have two buttons, one for yes, and one for no. Or should they be movie clips? Then I need to have the code for as. Im just kinda lost right now.
this is probably too advanced a task for you right now.
you should either work through some basic flash tutorials about creating buttons or hire someone to do this for you.