I've been having some real difficulties with my socket...
The problem is the <policy-file-request/> the flash player sends.. is there any way to tell it not to ask for a policy file? what's it for anyway?..
so, here's what happens.
server runs on port 80.
Flash Player sends <policy-file-request/> to server.
<allow-access-from domain="*" to-ports="*"/>
Flash Player disconnects...
Retrieving data ...