im not sure how but I get a notice just like my other notices from when someone replies to me.
it just says I have a private message.
im sure there is a check box somewhere.
after looking all i can tell is i have both boxes checked yet under "your stuff" preferences
it just goes to my e-mail.
also I have noticed that when I get a private message the 'Your Stuff" above turns ORANGE
and when I click it it shows the private message.
I had this set, as you wish to, but with the recent forum maintenance, and my having to go from IE 7 to Google Chrome to get some functionality back, I have not been able to get it to work reliably. Now, I have to say that today, I DID get notification of a PM, so something is working right again, and not really from anything that I did in either my Profile, or with Google Chrome - I gave up trying two weeks ago.
I'm not sure if maybe Jive and/or Adobe has made another change and gotten this function back, or if it's the phases of the Moon? I can only say that the PM e-mail notification was the only one that I wanted, and could do nothing to get it back. Then, today I got my first PM e-mail in about a month.
Sorry to not have a definitive answer, other than to say that it started working for me today.