I realize that this topic has been discussed a lot, and I think
I have the solution figured out.
The problem is that I have to edit the remoting-config file - and there isn't one!
I've hunted high and low on the server, and I just don't have the file.
We are using Coldfusion 8,0,0,176276 Enterprise, and I have an instance for my flex applicaitons (we have multiple instances running, and none of them have the file). The server is running on a Solaris VM.