So I solved my problem. It was a program called camstudio that was installed. I remember installing that right before the problems started. So i just uninstalled it, and then I uninstalled flash player and reinstalled it and works like a charm.
If this doesn't work for you guys here are a couple of other fixes I have found out there that has helped many others:
"Here at Adobe I believe we've managed to track down a possible fix from Sony. The page that contains the fix is in Japanese so I've provided a direct link. This will update the Sony driver that we suspect to be the cause of the crash. We have not been able to reproduce this here but could really use your feedback. Please try this out and report back your results.
"ok, I believe I found a fix, at least to this issue, and it had nothing to do with flash, even though it crashed shockwave flash on chrome and FF. The issue is that there is an error on the way Bluetooth handles streaming videos from others and webcams. I know it sounds totally unrelated, but stick with me. What I did was I went in and changed one of the bluetooth files in my System 32 folder and this fixed it. Here's what I did:
go to My Computer>C:(or whatever your hard drive is)> Windows>System32> then (scroll down to) find the file called "BtwVdpCapFilter.dll" and rename it anything else, I renamed it "BtwVdpCapFilter1.dll"
This should fix your issues. Oh, BTW, I restarted my laptop just to make sure.
God, I hope you guys get the same result as I did. Good luck."
"Hey i've been having this same problem for a while now, where if i even started playing a video on youtube it would crash. I think that i solved to problem
1. download the adobe flash uninstaller
2. run the uninstaller
3. restart your computer
4. get the latest flash player from the adobe website
i also updated my java, im not sure if that had anything to with it or not
I hope that this helps some of you"