don't get confused, these pics are also shown on one of my websites. You might for example add an image over or next to the chain of these symbols and explain the use of the icons (that they work like a cassette tape recorder). A link beyond to your flv file would be a nice service.
Look here too: http://forums.adobe.com/message/2668487#2668487
Post the URL to your live page, please. Most likely the answer to your question is contained in your code.
In the meantime, be sure you have uploaded your SWF, FLV and Scripts folder to remote server.