Just came across your posting - I've just posted a similar query (how to trigger a video clip by clicking an image) but have so far had no responses.
I wonder if you have found a solution and if it would help me.
OPTION 1 - Multiple Players and Multiple Videos
In DW, Insert > Media > Flash Video > Progressive Download. Browse to your Flash Video File in your Local Site folder (FLV file). Choose a Player Skin (control style). Hit OK.
Upload your page, FLV, SWF and Scripts folder to your web server.
Repeat this process for all remaining video files.
IMPORTANT: If your videos don't play, ask your web host to ensure that your server has both FLV and SWF MIME-types enabled.
OPTION 2 - Single Player with Multiple Videos
Get Wimpy Streaming Media Player. One player can handle all your Flash videos from a single playlist. Dirt simple to edit playlist later by adding or removing FLV files from server.
Sorry, but Flash videos cannot be launched from a straight link. They require an embedded player (SWF) to work.
Look at Wimpy Streaming Media Player. It will do everything you need and more.
Good luck with your project,