What is the website?
In Manage Add-ons, is the Shockwave Flash Object enabled?
In Tools, Safety, is ActiveX filtering unchecked?
In Internet Option, Security tab, is the security level set to Medium-High?
What is your operating system?
Make sure you are using 32 bit internet explorer and active x filter is unchecked under tools, other than that I haven't the slightest.
i don't even see something that says Shockwave Flash Object in my "manage add-ons" thing
ActiveX Filtering is unchecked
yes it is at medium high
and i have windows 7
Windows 7 - 32-bit or 64-bit?
Make sure you use the 32-bit version of Internet Explorer when you try to use Flash Player, or checking the Shockwave Flash add-on.
What files do you have in C:\Windows\system32\Macromed\Flash (32-bit Windows), or C:\Windows\syswow64\Macromed\Flash (64-bit Windows) ?
Enabling Shockwave Flash Object in "Manage Add-ons" in the Tools (Gear in upper right corner) worked for me. Carl Meyers nailed it.