Is there a way in InDesign to have Overprint Preview enabled by default for all documents at all times?
It has be done document-by-document. If you try to set Overprint Preview as a default (with no docs open), it is grayed out.
I suspect it could be scripted with a startup script that watches for a File > Open command. Check over in Scripting: InDesign Scripting
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